I like my friend's crush!?

ok first talk to pam. does pam knows u like him?? Cuz if Pam doesnt know u like Pat also then if Pat goes out wit Pam u will be hurt. So then once ur done talking to pam u should talk to pat n like flirt with him for awhile n ask if he likes u. n if u really really like pat u can just tell him u like him n like if pam gets angry n dont understand then one she migt not be a very good friend.. (but this part is optional)